Synastry

Mars Quincunx Lilith Synastry: The Need for Adjustment

Mars, named after the Roman god of war, is often associated with passion, drive, and assertiveness. In astrology, Mars embodies our ambition, sexual energy, and the instinctive force we use to interact with the world around us. It’s the raw, primal energy that fuels our desires and propels us toward our goals.

Lilith, on the other hand, is a bit more enigmatic. In astrology, Lilith is often referred to as the ‘Dark Moon Lilith’ or the ‘Black Moon Lilith.’ She represents the darker aspects of our nature, the part of us that we often suppress, deny, or feel uncomfortable acknowledging.

Disclaimer: Astrology suggests potentials and possibilities. I have 500+ synastry aspects in total, so you should check your whole synastry chart instead of one aspect within it.

1. Provoking Each Other’s Desires

With Mars-Lilith quincunx in synastry, Lilith provokes Mars’ raw primal desires while Mars awakens Lilith’s long-suppressed yearnings. Together, you stir up each other’s deepest carnal passions and lust. Fantasies and fetishes you’ve never shared before may come tumbling out.

You feel empowered to assert your bedroom needs more directly and forcefully with each other. Inhibitions may fade away and you get in touch with your core erotic desires. Together, you reach new heights of erotic expression.

However, this passion can also breed jealousy and obsession at times. The untamed sexual energies activated can be difficult to manage. Possessiveness may emerge. But the sheer magnetism is undeniable. The passion burns hot and intense like the pulses of your heart.

2. Struggles Over Control

Mars quincunx Lilith synastry can amplify controlling tendencies, where one partner seeks to overpower the other. Attempts to dominate can arise from underlying insecurities. It stems from fear of the profound intimacy this aspect offers.

The partner embodying Mars may use forceful or aggressive means to gain the upper hand. Criticism, anger, and even emotional abuse may arise in some cases. They may feel threatened by the other’s independence or freedom.

On the other hand, the Lilith partner may use silent treatment or evasiveness to undermine the other’s dominance. Passive aggression and subtle stubbornness seem to allow them to reclaim some sense of autonomy and control.

But true closeness requires vulnerability, honesty, and equality. The quincunx often breeds an ongoing battle for dominance that blocks that kind of intimacy. Power-sharing is important in this bond.

3. Passion Can Feel Restricted

Under this quincunx, passions may never feel fully unleashed. There can be a chronic feeling of limitation and unsatisfied longings. You want each other deeply yet feel constrained.

You may attract each other quickly yet it soon stalls out. The Lilith partner in particular can feel caged in by the other’s expectations and standards. To embrace intimacy means sacrificing their freedom and selfhood.

The Mars partner may feel rejected, played, or not desired enough. Their intimate advances may meet resistance. Over time this can dull the passion and erode the confidence.

Mars quincunx Lilith synastry can become that of Tantalus – tempted by something seemingly within reach yet ultimately denied. Such thwarting of intimacy and desire can breed frustration and dissatisfaction.

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