Synastry

Sun Quincunx Lilith Synastry: Weird Values And Lifestyles

The Sun in astrology represents our core identity, our vital energies, and the traits that we openly express to the world. It’s like the spotlight of our personal solar system, highlighting our individuality, our life goals, and our conscious self. When we express our Sun, we are showing the world who we are at our core.

Lilith, often referred to in astrology as the Black Moon Lilith, embodies the wild, untamed, and often hidden aspects of our personality. She represents our suppressed anger, sexual energy, and the parts of ourselves that society might label as taboo or unacceptable. Lilith is about embracing our inner depths, our uncharted territories, and our raw, unfiltered selves.

Disclaimer: Astrology suggests potentials and possibilities. I have 500+ synastry aspects in total, so you should check your whole synastry chart instead of one aspect within it.

1. Light Meets Darkness

In synastry, when your Sun forms a quincunx to your partner’s Lilith, light joins forces with darkness. This aspect forges an uneasy union between your conscious persona and your partner’s wilder, unconscious side. Who you essentially are can feel at odds with who they let themselves be behind closed doors.

You may find their sexual openness freeing yet also unsettling. Or their daring, rule-breaking spirit may intrigue but also disturb your conventional values.

There are spiritual consequences of being sexually open, particularly when your partner wants to wear revealing clothes. If this is the case, it’s important to remind your partner about the consequences of their actions.

2. They’re Edgier Than You’re Used To

With the Sun quincunx Lilith synastry, your partner may have an edgier, more brazenly sexual aura than you’re accustomed to. They can awaken passions and desires you didn’t know you had.

Your socialized, presentable self may be shocked by their raw, uncensored wildness behind closed doors. Their uninhibited sexuality may make you blush, yet also ignite intense attraction.

They can draw out your taboo side – forbidden fantasies and desires you deny or keep secret. Just being around them feels naughty yet liberating too. They coax out your hidden “shadow”.

However, you may judge their unrestraint harshly. You may worry about infidelity, cheating, adultery, and other negative situations. Here, the quincunx asks you to be open in communication and develop trust.

3. They Can Trigger Your Repressed Desires

Your partner’s Lilithian side – their sexual openness and disregard for social norms – can stir up intense, even primal desire in you. Their boldness acts like an aphrodisiac.

This can be exciting but also unnerving or threatening. Your inner beast can get triggered. At the same time, your raw hunger for them can override your moral values.

Likewise, your conventional, confident traits may arouse their forbidden desires. They may crave corrupting your “pure” essence with their naughtiness. Taboos can get broken.

You’re tempted to ignore the spiritual consequences of sleeping with someone before marriage, but it’s not wise to do so. It’s important to know that the forbidden fruit is forbidden for a reason, because there are always karmic reasons behind things.

4. Double Standards Could Emerge

With the Sun quincunx Lilith synastry, you may develop a double standard around morality versus individual liberties.

For example, you might condemn your partner’s unrestraint while benefitting from their willingness to be unconventional and bend rules. Or you take advantage of their “anything goes” approach behind closed doors.

Over time this can breed resentment, especially around issues of commitment or sexuality. You benefit from their willingness to defy norms yet also judge them for it. Hypocrisy can poison intimacy.

5. Power Struggles Around Control

This Sun-Lilith quincunx can brew power struggles around control. You may seek to restrict or rein in your partner’s wilder tendencies. Their unbridled nature threatens your orderly worldview.

Conversely, your partner may try overly hard to shock or provoke you – to destroy the pillars of status quo you represent. They crave shaking you out of your comfort zone.

At its unhealthiest, they deliberately taunt your boundaries and values while you stubbornly cling to personal rules, judging their non-conformity. Passive aggression may occur on the Lilith side as you both wrestle for control.

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